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Does God Hear My Prayers? He Inclined His Ear to Me

You’re on the landing between the second and third floors, in the one stairwell at work where your phone loses its signal. It’s 12:20. Your lunch is still zipped in its bag on the step beside you.

You’ve just said it again. The same three sentences about your marriage you’ve said every day since April, in the same order, word for word, the way you’d recite your own phone number.

You look up. Painted cinder block. A fluorescent tube with a dead fly lying in the cover. Above that, the third floor, and the roof, and the sky.

Is any of this even getting through?

The short answer: Yes. God hears your prayers, and He does not wait for them to climb up to Him. Scripture says He bends down to them: “Because He has inclined His ear to me, Therefore I will call upon Him as long as I live” (Psalm 116:2). And David uses one Hebrew word for God hearing his cry and for God bowing the heavens to come down (Psalm 40:1; Psalm 18:9). Your prayer does not have to get through the ceiling. He bent it.

A Man Saul Hunted Every Day

Before David wrote the song, he lived the years.

He’d already been anointed king. The king who still held the throne wanted him dead. “And David stayed in strongholds in the wilderness, and remained in the mountains in the Wilderness of Ziph. Saul sought him every day, but God did not deliver him into his hand” (1 Samuel 23:14).

Every day. Limestone ridges. A cave mouth with a lookout posted. Water rationed by the swallow. No palace, no priest at his elbow, no one in Jerusalem who could hear a word he said out there.

Years later, “on the day that the LORD delivered him from the hand of all his enemies and from the hand of Saul” (Psalm 18, title), David put those years into a song. He tells you what they were like from inside: “The pangs of death surrounded me, And the floods of ungodliness made me afraid” (Psalm 18:4).

Then he tells you what he did, and where it went. “In my distress I called upon the LORD, And cried out to my God; He heard my voice from His temple, And my cry came before Him, even to His ears” (Psalm 18:6).

A voice from a hole in the rock, and it arrives “even to His ears.” Now watch what David says God did with what He heard.

The Word for Bending Down

“He bowed the heavens also, and came down With darkness under His feet” (Psalm 18:9).

“Bowed” is wayyēṭ, “and He bent,” from the verb nāṭâ, “to stretch out, bend, incline.” It’s the word for pitching a tent, for stretching out a hand, for bending something low toward you.

Now open another psalm of David. “I waited patiently for the LORD; And He inclined to me, And heard my cry” (Psalm 40:1).

“Inclined” is the same word in the same form: wayyēṭ, “and He bent.”

In David’s mouth, God hearing one man’s cry and God bowing the sky are one word. When David says God heard him, he does not picture a voice straining upward through the clouds until it finally makes it. He pictures the heavens bending down to the man.

Psalm 116 puts an ear in the picture: “Because He has inclined His ear to me” (Psalm 116:2). It is the same verb, nāṭâ, “to bend.” Think of a father on the bleachers at a loud ballgame when his four-year-old tugs at his sleeve. He doesn’t make her shout. He bends down until his ear is at her mouth.

What You Can Stop Doing

So here is what you can stop doing. You can stop trying to push your prayer up through the ceiling. Stop saying it louder, or longer, or more correctly. Stop saying it one more time on the way out of the stairwell to make sure it went. The ceiling you have been praying at is the very thing Scripture says He bowed. The distance you keep trying to close with words is a distance He closed by bending down.

That’s why the “therefore” in Psalm 116:2 runs the direction it does. “Because He has inclined His ear to me, Therefore I will call upon Him as long as I live.” His bending is not the reward at the end of your calling. It is the reason you call at all. And you can call again tomorrow, and the day after, as long as you live.

If He has heard you and the answer still hasn’t come, here is what to do when God is silent. And if what you bring Him today has no words in it at all, Hannah’s silent prayer shows what He did with a prayer no one else could hear.

When You’re Sure He’s Stopped Listening

He’s probably stopped listening to this one.

You think it at 7:41 on a Wednesday morning, standing in the middle of the crosswalk with the stop sign raised over your head. Two lanes of cars idle in the cold. A boy in a dinosaur backpack runs the last ten feet. You’re a crossing guard, sixty-two, retired from the post office, and every morning between the first bus and the last stragglers you pray for your grandson. The same prayer since June, when he moved to his dad’s and stopped picking up when you call.

On the back of the sign’s handle there’s a strip of masking tape. You wrote Psalm 40:1 on it in ballpoint in September, and the ink’s gone gray where your glove rubs.

The crosswalk empties. You lower the sign and step back to the curb, and you turn the handle over and read it under your breath: “He inclined to me, And heard my cry.”

You say Caleb’s name once, at the volume you’d use with someone standing right beside you.

Then a minivan door slides open across the street, and three more kids climb out, and you lift the sign and walk back into the road.

Say It Once, Close Enough to Whisper

Here’s the one thing to do today. Take the prayer you’ve worn smooth, the one you could say in your sleep. Say it once, plainly, at the volume you’d use with someone leaning in close. Not louder. Not longer. Then read Psalm 116:2 out loud: “Because He has inclined His ear to me, Therefore I will call upon Him as long as I live.”

Then stop. Don’t say it a second time to make sure it landed. Pick up your lunch and go back to your desk. Tomorrow, bring it to Him again the same way. If you’ve run out of ways to say it, here is how to pray when you don’t know what to say.

Scripture to Keep When You Wonder If He’s Listening

“Because He has inclined His ear to me, Therefore I will call upon Him as long as I live.” (Psalm 116:2)

“I waited patiently for the LORD; And He inclined to me, And heard my cry.” (Psalm 40:1)

“In my distress I called upon the LORD, And cried out to my God; He heard my voice from His temple, And my cry came before Him, even to His ears.” (Psalm 18:6)

“The LORD is near to all who call upon Him, To all who call upon Him in truth.” (Psalm 145:18)

“For your Father knows the things you have need of before you ask Him.” (Matthew 6:8)

A Prayer for When You Wonder If He Hears You

Father, I have been praying at the ceiling as if my words had to climb to You. You inclined Your ear to me. You bowed the heavens and came down. Here is the thing I keep bringing You: [say it once]. I am not going to say it louder, and I am not going to say it again to be sure. You heard it. I will call on You tomorrow, and as long as I live. In Jesus’ name, amen.

If your prayers have worn down to the same few sentences, The 1-Minute Heart Prayer Method is a short, plain guide to honest prayer with a Father who’s already leaning in.

I heard you on the stairs, child. You don’t have to push it up through the ceiling. I bent it. I’m not straining to make you out from far off. I’ve leaned all the way down. My ear’s right here. Bring it again tomorrow if you need to. I’ll bend the same way.

Your prayer does not have to climb to reach Him. He bent the heavens down to hear it.

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Scripture taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.